We would like to take this young girl of 13 years. . . Where to start?

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Sorry, it’s long. This girl is my sister, my mother and father are divorcing bitter today. His father had lost custody of her before he married my mother because my mother has custody, he returned to her while they were together. Since the divorce, she stayed with us (almost 3 months). Meanwhile, calls his father again, and see them and when we brought them to the meeting place, it was not. Since this call before the 21 days he has not contacted them at all. It can truly supervised visits with their mother only, and in the 4 years since we’ve known this girl, we never met his mother and she did not see that 2 weekends in 4 years. I think my mother is from his frustration with his father on the child. My mother is very rough and the average of their planes. I’m 35 years old, my husband and I have been married for 12 years and we both worked our work for over 10 years. We believe that to make this child a stable environment and the company must give you. Your and my other daughter are best friends, help at home and is just a sweet girl that we adore. We have discussed this with “Eve” and my daughter, and they are both up for adoption. I think this “Eve” is a stable environment to help them learn and help them grow. (Their only drawback is that it is immature for his age), but I understand that after all these girls that what is normal was. I spoke with my mother about it last night, and his only wish was that we wait until she finds a job, so they do not lose the child support. Until last night, I was not aware, my mother has received support from their children. We do not care about money or child support, is our only concern, for “Eve”. Eve was their parents when they are 8 and a family member was taken and raped her when the family member was taken out of the house, she was returned to her parents. Her mother had a bad habit, crystal meth and I started to myself that by the end of a fire that killed “Eve” little sister. Why did his mother has custody is lost for them. My question is where do we start? How do I get the ball on this assumption, and that sort of thing are people watching us that the investigation? We are a stable family, but we have made the economy, we are short financially, but we’re a good Christian family. We do not do drugs or drink. We have five daughters, our house is big enough for 8 of us and we have a place for all transportation. I want the matter resolved quickly so that the poor girl does not care about more than displaced. We want them to have the capacity, a loving and caring home where they feel comfortable.

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  1. Welfare'ah Jones says:

    Ooh this way too long. But she can still cook? Are they clean? How to wash a load of laundry? If they can do all these things, then they are!

  2. bittersweet* says:

    May God bless you and your husband will take care of these people. Unfortunately, I have no idea of adoption if I can not help you. . . I do not recommend research online.Viel luck to you all.

  3. Traylee says:

    You need to talk to a lawyer for the family. The rights of their biological mother and father must close before it can be supported. You can waive their rights, or if they refuse a court that can be done. It is generally a rather long legal battle and expensive, I suggest you try to place diplomaticly without the intervention of the Court. Maybe you can get something with their parents. So they still have contact (which would be best for the girl, anyway) is the only sound that you consult a family lawyer. You have to examine the current state of parental rights and advise you on the best course of action.

  4. Miki M says:

    Possession is 9 / 10 of the Act. . . . . . . . . . . . . lol. . . But seriously. . . . Go Adoptuskids org is all set. Its funny that the money that ends up becoming an important place of children. They contribute to the family at last she needs and deserves. Take classes that services for children will want you and your husband and go through the legal steps. I’m sure you very well. Oh yes, there are some stories on this site that might interest you. This is not about money, its whats right for this little girl.

  5. shirley ann says:

    ok I’ve been accepted, search people and I tell DHS that girl who is adopted then they will help you for some reason, brought the children to be in foster care, I think it is allowed my story: wanted my biological mother did not, my twin brother and then had held a gun to her anyway, she gave us, my father and he will raise us up to 7 years old, my sister will step blueprints laid back and DHS legs people we took it as if we want to continue straight, then we must have tried to foster dad for 2 years so for us a house, and they were our cousins, so that we adopted that we are done with school and then move. what I mean is that, as with DHS and they trust me to help with a direct question they will be accepted as it is bad mother Vertrauenauch birth of my doing drugs and went to prison

  6. cricketlady says:

    Contact social services and from there. They will help families with the family — and this is their goal — unfortunately, are often no better than the parents of the family. Go ahead and God bless you.

  7. XxXxSilhouetteDreamsXxXx says:

    in 14 you could take me and I wouldnt complain. f ** k the happiest child in the world id. Home stupid. . .